November 19, 2010
My Cup Runneth Over
With Thanksgiving around the corner, I thought it only fitting that I list just a few of the things I’m thankful for. Nearly two years ago (can’t believe it’s been that long!), Tim lost his job, and I wrote a series of notes on Facebook listing some of my blessings. It was such a comforting exercise; I encourage everyone to do it sometime when you’re feeling pessimistic or that life just isn’t treating you fairly. Maybe I should make this a regular feature…
1. Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior, and one day, he will take me away from all of the pain in this world and home to his Father.
2. I have a wonderful husband who loves God, me and his children. He loves me more than I deserve, even when I am completely unlovable.
3. I have two great kids. Yes, Pierce’s autism is a challenge for us daily, but this kid loves like no other kid I know. Reagan is the happiest, nicest, most compliant child you can imagine. I am so blessed to be their mom.
4. Every day, the four of us are able to get out of bed healthy and happy.
5. We have very little debt. Our mortgage is paid off! My car is too, but now we’re looking at a new car, so that’s about to change. Oh well, on with the positive stuff!
6. I have parents that love me and punished me when I needed it. They taught me about the love of Jesus. They pray for me, Tim and the kids every day. And, even though they are far away, they are some pretty great grandparents to my two kids!
7. I have a sister that has defied the odds, and continues to fight a critical illness every single day. She enjoys encouraging others, even when she feels she doesn’t have anything to give. I love her bunches!
8. I have a fabulous mother-in-law. She lavishes me with praise to the point that I have a hard time believing I’m as great as she thinks I am. She’s the reason Tim is as awesome as he is!
9. I have a sister-in-law that is a great inspiration to me. She has overcome adversity and continues to grow into a wonderful person. She’s a fantastic mom to my niece, Elise!
10. I have my “hens”; my Steel Magnolias bestest of best friends who would do anything for me and I for them.
11. We are part of a great church. Even more important, we are part of a small group/life group that I love.
12. I have finally found an outlet for my love of singing; a place where I feel somewhat talented and have something to contribute. I love the Metro Nashville Chorus (and my quartet, Simplicity)!
13. I have a roof over my head. Though I have my complaints about the constant projects and repairs that come along with a fixer-upper, my family has a place to call “home”. There’s air in the summer, heat in the winter, electricity and indoor plumbing. There are so many people that would love to have it as good as my family does.
14. I have never known hunger.
15. All four of us have closets full of clothes.
16. I live in America. We are free to worship whatever god we choose.
17. We have men and women that fight for that and many other freedoms every single day. I don’t think we can thank them enough.
18. Pierce has been in school since he was three-years-old, and every year, we’ve had awesome teachers and educational aides. They genuinely care about my son, and do all that they can to help him. Reagan’s had great teachers, too!
19. I’m actually pretty good at growing things.
20. I would not have chosen to be a mom of a special needs child. However, I now have knowledge and insight that I can use to help other families that are walking the same path.
I know I can go on and on, but I want to get this posted, so I’m going to stop here for now. Positivity is not a quality I exude; it takes some work for me. I need to work harder to be thankful all year round and not just because a date on the calendar inspires the country to do so. I hope you will join me. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!